[[鈾]: A word of advice could help me out...should i give him more time or just move on?

my guy is a new dad this year by his ex, he dropped out of college for awhile to help support his baby but hes having a hard time dealing w/that %26amp; everything else %26amp; our relationship has been kinda hard lately so i had decided to let go for now so i called him n he tells me that his mind is so broken right now he doesn't know wether to come or go bc on top of everything he got fired from his job a few days after we last saw each other..so i ask myself do let him go bc he had promised me he was going to proof himself to me %26amp; he let me down again..maybe he just needs his space? or do i call him again %26amp; tell him that i am here for him no matter what? thats what i want to do but i dont want to suffcate him n he still hasnt bothered to call me!! idk what to do should i wait it out a lil more..i feel like i am being selfish %26amp; i just need to give him time to get back up on his feet but either way he let me down again so where do i stand??[[鈾]: A word of advice could help me out...should i give him more time or just move on?
I think he is acting too much %26amp; not at all reliable. Why do u care him so much when he doesn't do so to u %26amp; tell so many excuses, a common thing in many boyfriends, who are not reliable in general %26amp; play with the bodies, emotions %26amp; sentiments of girls without actually realising that girls are much more emotional than boys %26amp; a girl of broken heart faces much more trauma than boys. This man is already contaminated. It may be his hobby to play with girls. Please be practical. Search a better guy carefully. I've already talked on this topic many times. May God help u ! Good luck!.[[鈾]: A word of advice could help me out...should i give him more time or just move on?
Thank you Madam! Take care of you better !

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Give him a little space. He is obviously having a rough time right now and he just needs a little time to think. In a week or so, call him and just say hey how are you how is everything going. good luck, hope everything works out.
Honey, let him grow out of it on his own terms. You might just complicate his situation. He needs time and space to think everything through. He'll be fine regardless.
if you love him with all your heart then stand by him if not then move on1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it is up to you give him space if you hve to
move on. if its meant to be it'll come back to you
I would give him his space, he really does have alot going on, and one


thing for sure he needs time to bond with his baby, I would not want


a man that just dropped everything for me. I am talking in regards to


his baby. If he would do something like that you can be sure that he


may never be a good father to your children if this were to ever happen.


I would not however go out and start dating someone else, think about


school your friends and take up a hobby of some sort that you always


dreamed of doing. Again give him some space only time will tell,
I understand what your going through, my boyfriend has two kids, is in and out of the hospital, where miles apart right now, and it's difficult to find time to call each other. It all depends on how the two of you feel about each other, and the relationship you are in. If you love him then, wait, but make sure he feels the same. But if you don't want to then tell him that it might be a better idea to be friends and that you will be their for him. I know it's hard, but if you two of love each other, then you can over come it. I feel selfish too, since I don't want to take him away from his kids, but that is another story.





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The poor guy probably doesn't know if he's coming or going or standing still. It's no doubt been like let me stand up so I can be knocked down again. He's just had one thing after another %26amp; another. You wonder why you haven't heard from him? I don't think at this particular time he can do much of anything in the way of proving himself to anyone/anything. I sure wouldn't hold anything against him at this time w/everything he's gone thru. I think if it were me, I'd give him a call w/a smile in my voice %26amp; just tell him you were thinking about him %26amp; just wanted him to know. Also, if you can be of any support to him I'd sure offer it to him. Try your best just to keep it lite, %26amp; don't try to force him into proving anything to you at the moment. He needs time to sort out all his different situations in his own life at the moment. And also rite now a little kindness wouldn't hurt. Let him be the one to make the next move %26amp; take it from there. If you really care about him, give him some space rite now. If it's meant to be it w/be %26amp; you'll be the first one to know I'm sure. I'd try to just be patient a bit longer. The best to you...:)