I need some advice/words of wisdom?

if you have time please answer.


okay so this has been a rough year for me, i chose different paths and lost some.


i feel that my bestfriend is my cousin.


however, my cousin has a bestfriend that at times i feel she cares more for than me. it makes me really feel unloved.


i love my family. but i do need friends. im going to a new school next year. any tips on making new friends?I need some advice/words of wisdom?
the best advice to give you is to be yourself and focus on being you, if someone is going to be your friend it's better that they like you for who you really are rather than what they want you to be.I need some advice/words of wisdom?
Well if you are starting at a new school, you can make a fresh start. Join some clubs and talk to as many people you can on your first day. Be friendly and make a good first impression.


Stay in touch with your good friends, but don't bother with the ones who are 'selfish and bitchy' as you said.


Remember that you don't become best friends with someone instantly, so don't stress :)

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Long Distance Relationship -- Advice, words of wisdom.. comments?!?

The girlfriend who I love moved away, for a while the distance held up fine, we were both completely faithful to eachother, but the problem is, through the last 3 weeks of december to a few days ago we were arguing quite a bit, and our conversations consisted mostly speaking of our relationship, and not about our lives etc...





I decided to end things, but I said we should still say on very close terms... because honestly I do love her, and honestly, if I could I'd marry her tomorrow... but life doesn't always work like that. For the record we've spoke about it, and she also loves me back and didn't want it to end either.





I don't really know what to do, I planned on her being home in the summer, but it looks like it is going to be a bit longer before she returns... and yes she's across the atlantic. We'd be looking at 2+ years before we can live in the same place again.Long Distance Relationship -- Advice, words of wisdom.. comments?!?
if u really love her just wait if u certainly know she loves u and wait too i know it is too hard , but it worthLong Distance Relationship -- Advice, words of wisdom.. comments?!?
Sometimes distance and be a good thing so bothof you can breath plus you'll miss eachother so much you'll have fun the next time you'll see eachother.





Maybe the next time you talk to her just let her know how much you really want to make this work and try to get with her again.
try to check the depth of the love, it is always challanging to work with the long distance relationship, be sure it is possible just both of you need alot of committment for each other.

If anyone could talk to britney what would ur words of, POSITIVE advice be?

i personally would say, yes i know drugs are good, but you are a mother now and you need to stop. Get away, far away from eveyone. Don't let what the world says about you effect you. So many people are bi-polar. I am, shitt. I know how it is, but girly u got to realize its not good to let your impulses get to you. Its hard, it takes work and medicine. Some many people want to see you fail, but 2x as many want you to succeedd.








I love her, i always have. May god be with her.If anyone could talk to britney what would ur words of, POSITIVE advice be?
I would tell her to go to an african country to suffer. because she so conceited and rich thats why shes all messed up. If she would live the humble life, maybe she wouldnt be in rehab and in the hospital every five minutes. Shes a bad singer [now], bad mother, and slutty [umm she wears NO panties??]If anyone could talk to britney what would ur words of, POSITIVE advice be?
She's been really messed up ever since her house had a flat tire. Leave her alone...it's traumatic. It would help if she could actually sing outside of a studio where they can make Kermit the Frog sound like Paula Abdul...hmmm
Pretty much what you just said, get away and escape...but most of all, tend to your children.
Take a break, take a kit kat :]
I would tell her to look at her life and love herself. Get rid of the negative people and focus on herself and her kids.
i would say that everyone is waiting for her to do something wrong so she should surprise them all and do something good and actually come back to the world.


there are many people who have nothing out there and she has like alot of money .. there are ppl much worse than her ( not mentally )
I would tell her to give up her kids till she can sort herself out. Then I would tell her to stay out of the public eye for a while and get some serious help. I am so sick of her being on every magazine and in every news story looking like she's about to puke like niagra falls.

Would you like to share some encouraging words or advice of getting over a guy?

it's going to be painful and very emtional but it's important to reevaluate yourself as an individual and let the emotions out. As time moves on so will you.Would you like to share some encouraging words or advice of getting over a guy?
It takes time, it is not easy, everyone goes thru it in their own way, you will get thru it even when it doesn't feel like it, you will be a stronger person from it ... you can do it

What is thee best piece of advice you've ever received...words of wisdom?

Mine would have to be from my dad,


';Don't get intimidated by the whole jungle, but rather take on one tree at a time. When you've managed to combat the entire jungle and you look back at it, you will look at it with the same overwhelming emotion you did before you conquered it. However, this time you see it as a feat and you see it from the otherside.';





He doesn't sound as ';poetic'; lol but non-the-less THEE best peice of advice...a close second comes it's not what you know it's who you know.





Anyone care to share...?What is thee best piece of advice you've ever received...words of wisdom?
Change your place, change your life.What is thee best piece of advice you've ever received...words of wisdom?
i dont know if this counts as a piece of advice but i'll say it anyway:


';yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. thats why its called the present'; (got it from kung fu panda lol)


another one:


';live your life, life may have a lot of difficulties, but in the end life's worth it'; (from my dad)
That often times when you look hard enough you can see people who care about you when you look at them the way they want to be seen
hate 2 say it, but, dont be a fundamentalist anything. not really h8ing sayin it. hahaha.
Your dad is so right and I'm happy you realize it!





The best advice I've had came from the Pulpit about 40 years ago. The Rev said ';If you're always afraid of falling into quicksand, you'll never take a step!';
To profit from good advice requires more wisdom than to give it.
Always wear clean underwear.
';the safest way to double your money is to fold it over';





';Don't eat yellow snow...';
The best thing to do with good advice is pass it on, it's never of any use to one's self. -Oscar Wilde
dont live life with regrets.
never try to teach a pig to sing ,it wastes your time %26amp; annoys the pig

Freshman next year...yikes?!?! I'm wicked nervous! any words of encouragement or advice?

highschool is next year and filled with hundreds of kids. %26amp; i'm wicked shy, some people don't even know i speak and i have only about 1 close friend that will join me in highschool. do you have any advice for the first day or maybe the whole experience in general? tips on making friends because it doesn't really come easy to me?Freshman next year...yikes?!?! I'm wicked nervous! any words of encouragement or advice?
well when it comes to makin friends. just sorta go wit the flow dont try to force anything. eventually u will start making friends thats how i made them.





i was shy like u but i had more than just one close friend coming with me though plus i played sports.





on first day just relax it gonna be weird and crazy. just dont come off as a weird crazy guy and dont be scared because people can smell fear and might start giving you a hard time





get active in school activities and sports. join clubs and stuff.





but just make sure u be yourselfFreshman next year...yikes?!?! I'm wicked nervous! any words of encouragement or advice?
Well i know its tough to break out of your shell. I was nervous my first day too. I was lucky that i had several close friends to rely on that were going through the same thing. You need to be more outgoing and try to open yourself up a little bit so that you can make new friends in all of your classes. Just relax and talk to some people and it'll come easily. Its gonna be a little nervewracking but you'll settle right in soon enough. :) good luck with high school.
im gonna be a sophmore this year in highschool and i was really scared for freshmen year too but a couple days or maybe even a week into it you will adapt andsee how much better highschool is then middle school and you might be scared of all the people the first day but like i said you will def adapt son and if someone talks to you you should tslk back because the more friends you jhave in highschool the better off you are and try to get friends from all grades
Im sure all the other kids will be just as nervous. Just be yourself and go up to someone who you want to be friends with and smile and say hi my name is .... and go from there. Also play lots of sport as that is a good way to make friends - since you have something in common
Yeahh.


CALM DOWN.


High school isnt that bad.


I was terrified when my freshman year started. Im now gonna be a senior and i love school. Its not as bad as they portray it in movies, nobody is really SUPER mean, yeahh you have your bullies but they wont mess with you if you dont mess with them.
HAHA FRESHFISH IM GONNA PUT YOU IN A LOCKER HAHAL.......NOT Highschool is not like that at all when i was a freshman i was lost in the big school and some upper class helped me out and showed me where to go its not that bad
freshman year will show you a lot of new things so just relax cause there are kids all over the country who feel the same way and your electives help cause the kids in them have the same interests as you

I have a job interview on Thursday...will you give me a star and words of encouragement or advice?

Hey look up advice at yahoo jobs or other websites they have great tips for interviews. Remember to practice in front of the mirror. Dress nice and conservative! Relax you will do great!I have a job interview on Thursday...will you give me a star and words of encouragement or advice?
the Thursday is belongs to guru(he is the one of navagrah nayak%26amp; he is the aacharya of devakull) and also the day belongs


to lakshmidevi,so that you may win your interview and get a good,responcible, well respectable job.you get success all your


service%26amp;in personel life also.I have a job interview on Thursday...will you give me a star and words of encouragement or advice?
The big websites (Monster, HotJobs, Careerbuilder) all have really good sections of interview prep.





The one thing I like to suggest is that you figure out what you are going to wear and try it all on first.





Also, review your resume and make sure you can pick good examples from each place you have worked.





Finally, do your best to be friendly and personable. Remember, interviewers are people too - they want good coworkers - and THEY have been on the other side of the desk too!








Best of luck! What the heck, I'll star you too ;-)
arrive 10 to 15 minutes early


donot eat or drink anything before the interview


greet the receptionist and smile alot


make sure your hands and nails are clean


shake nads with a strong and firm grip


dress one step above the people working there (ie if it is factory work dress in khakis and a polo/dress shirt w/o a tie)


do not sit until asked to take a seat


ask questions to make yourself look like you have researched the company and know something about the company (please do this!!)


donot ramble


make eye contact frequently


be honest


if possible ask for a tour (trust me they will love this!)


do not discuss salary until the offer for the job has been made. if it comes up in the interview say something like its negotiable. if the question is pushed then make sure you have done your homework and say something like ';will researching the position on question you found that people make somewhere between $$ and $$ and with my experience you were looking to make $$ to $$';. This way its open for negotiating and not pigeonholed.


thank the employer for their time


and FOLLOW UP!!





Good luck!
Good luck!!!!!
try not to do a spud in trainspotting (leasure is my pleasure)
what is the worst that can happen ? who knows if you dont get it you may have to find a job that is even better
If you have gaps in your employment history, they will most likely want to know why. The best explanation is to make something up about your family. Say, you had to visit your grandparents in Florida to help them, or you were going through a divorce, etc. People are more sympathetic towards that kind of stuff, instead of you just saying ';I've been looking for work for the past 6 months with no luck'; That would make you look bad.
Look calm and at your best. Make a list of interview questions. Be confident and look the interviewer in the eyes when talking. Speak clear even if you are not sure how to answer the question. Use firm handshake. Ask questions to show you are interested in the company.
no and super size my order please
Most employers want an enthusiastic, enegenic and friendly person who has skills or is coachable and is confident not cocky.Think of the answer to the question ';why should he/she hire you for this job?';





Work the answer in even if it isn't asked.





Get a good night sleep, dress a little better than normal, arrive early, relax and let your smile and enthusiasm overcome your concern about resume facts or questions. Good Luck
first thing to make sure is that you give your full attention and have eye contact at all times. Don't give them any sad stories many people think by giving a sad story they get sympathy and i interview about 5 people a week and trust me I get all kinds of stories. Well good luck just be yourself not something that your not.

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