I have this problem and it is really hard for me. It's a little heart breaking for me to say goodbye. I don't find this is the case with everyone but with a lot of people... maybe more than it should be the case with. I am really bad with goodbyes!I get far too attached to people and find it hard to say goodbye. Any words of advice?
Indeed, attachment is the source of our pains and sufferings. You can get attached not only to people but to things, places etc. too.
You must remember that people and things come and go, you'll meet several other people in the future. Instead of developing attachment to people try to develop genuine and unconditional love. Love them enough to let them go.
There will be a time in your life in the future, when you will lose very close loved-ones and you will need all your strength to cope with that. Bear this in mind and prepare yourself for that now, even if it is a bit early yet.
I'm telling you all this because my mum died last week and I've only just realised how much we don't own people, they are not our property. We have to let them go either temporarily or for good because they don't belong to us.I get far too attached to people and find it hard to say goodbye. Any words of advice?
it shows your an emotional person and normal i feel the same at times certain people i find it difficult to say goodbye to it shows ur human and caring
John Lenon once said '; Don't say good bye say hello';
There is nothing wrong with you. You take a friendship serious and that is a sign of sincerity. Good for you.
i'm the same way i wish i knew also cuz it sux not being able to get that person out of your head.
its only goodbye if you never speak or see again
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