Sunday, May 9, 2010

Depression, heart broken, words of advice please?

First off, I'm a teen and have a good idea that I'm depressed. I've been through more than a regular teenager would go through in the past year. At the moment, I'm heart broken. It's not one of those things you get over in a couple days, it feels permanent. I've been heart broken for over 6 months now. I used to be an extremely happy person when I was dating my ex-boyfriend. Ever since we broke up, my habits have changed. I don't tend to sleep as much, nor eat. If I'm not around someone, I get this feeling of loneliness and it won't leave me. Also, I used to wake up and the first thing I would do is take a shower every morning. Lately, I've got to urge myself to build up the energy to do something as simple as taking a shower. I know I need to go see a therapist and get diagnosed but I just need some word of advice. I miss my ex very much. He keeps asking me to take him back, but he cheated on me, and I've got to say no - which hurts. Happy New Year to everyone.Depression, heart broken, words of advice please?
You do sound as if you are becoming depressed. Go see the doctor. Take some form of hobby which includes exercise, horse riding or something you like. Make a list of things you like doing and do them. There will be someone out there that will not cheat on you, but at the moment take care of yourself.Depression, heart broken, words of advice please?
It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.


--Deuteronomy 31:8
So ya just go see a therapist and just talk to some like a close friend or even your mom so you wont have all your thoughts and feelings bottled up talking helps a lot
Play some good R%26amp;B you can relate to and make your bed! Take a bubble bath,get your eyebrows waxed, eat cake and call up a friend to vent about how it hurts.Go for a walk to clear your head.Clean up light candles or incense.It's okay to be sad and confused for a little while but get back to your routine school,work friends family.See the world!
I'm not gonna say that I understand what your going through because no one can completley put themselves in someone else's shoes. But i can relate pretty well. I was going out with my boyfriend for about 3 years, and I loved him. And the thing with me, is that I don't fall in love easily. I think he was probably the first. We broke up 2 years ago though because we ended up at different schools and it was too hard with the distance and all. Even though we ended things on good terms, he started talking to me again about 2 weeks ago. It made me realize how much I actually missed him, but then I also realized that nothing was ever gonna happen again between us. You have to learn how to let go of your past and move forward no matter how hard it seems. There's people out there who don't have even the most neccesary of things so I still count myself blessed for what i have. there's many things in life you probably haven't experienced, and there's still many people you haven't met. Out of the 6 billion people, i'm sure you're bound to find someone else that'll be even more special to you.


Keep your head up, things will look better. It's the new year, try to start it off with a positive attitude, and you'll see how things can start looking better.


Hope this helped:)

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