Strong words of advice please!!!?

Ok my boyfriend and I broke up 3months ago but today i found out why, he was too scared to tell me all this time that he loves me not just the way he used to 'with all his heart.' the thing is the past 3 months we've still been in contact, seeing and being intimate with one another, he claims that he was doing so because he wanted to try and rekindle the love and also convince me that if it didnt work we could still remain friends but it hasn't worked because lust and my bitterness about the past just takes over. I still love him and i didnt want to let him go because he was my first in everything. We concluded that we would have 3 months apart till march, absolutely no contact, and no other relationships then see. I told him that he has changed from the person i fell in love with him, i keep looking for that 'wow' side of him but its just not there, he's become so insensitive. A part of me wants to cling onto the idea that one day he will wake up and think 'omg I love her and I want to be with her' or that after this break we will try again but another part of me just wants to cut him out and move on completely because im not sure if i can allow myself to be let down again. how can you forget that you love someone? A part of me is angry that i keep going back and cheapening myself because if he truly wanted me he would be with me, can time help us?Strong words of advice please!!!?
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Hope! have a nice day and nice dream.Strong words of advice please!!!?
You sound like a girl with her head skrewed on. Do you think you really have a future together?


It can be hard to get round the fact that the person you once loved isn't there anymore, I really struggled with it infact, but with I've been with my current partner (now Wife) for 4 years and I get that wow factor everyday in fact it keeps getting bigger and bigger.


Am I a romantic? Probably, but what I do know is that the wow factor will keep you together and I would give up what I've got for the world now. Even though I never used to think that.





Be true to yourself I think you know what you can, want to and need to do. All the best %26amp; good luck