Any words of advice? Am i wrong to have no hope? Am I in denial?

Ok, well I decided to have a relationship with my best friend, and everything was GREAT! I was happier then I had ever been. We had been friends for 1.5 yrs and kinda just liked each other as more than friends. Well we tried it and i was happy and i thought he was too. It was long distance but we always talked and then when we got to see each other we kissed and everything and it felt so perfect, and then i started to fall in love with them, well at that same time they were falling away. And then i tried to talk to them but they weren't the same, and i was/am crushed. They seem to be uncertain about life in general, and we decided to be friends, but I feel that they'll come back and I hope its soon, i can't handle this!!! But I thought that they would never do this to me and this was the first time in a long time that I decided to open up and i am lost n whether it was worth it and all i want to do now is just close up completely with relationships, IDK!!! any advice out there???Any words of advice? Am i wrong to have no hope? Am I in denial?
man , i feel like some one has finally taken a step in my shoes. the difference is i knew this girl for 3 years and i knew her bro for 4. and we grew apart when i left for military training. all i can say is were still friends and i will always love her, and i dont think anyone could ever take her place. i live in FL and she lives in MI. so i can only see her once a year ';for summer'; and im the only guy she says i love you too, and thats still after we drop it down to friends . KEEP HOLDING ON , NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE!!!!!Any words of advice? Am i wrong to have no hope? Am I in denial?
Very confusing situation for you.


Whatever happens, have a positive attitude towards it. Consider everything like a lesson to be learned, rather than a misfortune.


Talk to your friend, you two seem to be able to be openly honest with eachother, Just be as open, frank, straight foward and honest towards eachother as possible. Dont worry about hurting eachother, dont be discreet. You need to KNOW whats going on. Tell eachother no pessure on either of you to do anything, just need to know how you feel.

elizabeth arden