Any words of advice or wisdom?

iv'e kinda been seeing this girl for a few weeks when it was called to my attention that another girl was interesed in me. im not officially ';going out'; with either but i wanna know how i can tell one girl that i dont want to go out with her with out hurting her feelings is there any way to do that?Any words of advice or wisdom?
Do you like the girl you been seeing? How do you know yo and the othr gil will work out? Or are you wanting to stop seeing one girl, because the othr look better? If you haven't commited yourself to the first girl there shouldn't be a problem. I wouldn't stop seeing her until you know what will be he results of the second girl. Then if you can easily jump from person to person maybe you don't know much about commitment. And you will do he same thing to the second girl if someone else come along. Think about your motives. Or maybe you just started talking to the first girl out of boredom. Why haven't you approached the second girl before someone brought it to your attention? Think before you leap.Any words of advice or wisdom?
Be careful in ';trading up';. I know a guy that every time he starts dating somebody, he finds another girl he wants to date instead. Maybe prettier, smarter, cooler car, etc. HE has a bad rep and his nickname is ';Trader up';. I don't know any girls who want to date him now. So be careful what you wish for. If you're really not into her, just let her know! If you're just looking for the next best thing...she may do the same to you too!
in my experiance there is no way to tell a girl you are not intrested with out hurting them.
the simple answer is no. But rejection is apart of life and we are rejected twice as often as we are accepted. It is a part of life. Now I'm not saying that you should be a jerk about it. Just be a man and respectfully let her know. Tell her you don't want to hurt her and that you feel bad about doing it and tell her.
a monk once said, ''to choose the one your more interested in'' lol
not really.. just dont lead her on. Tell her as soon as possible, just tell her that you do like her but not really that way. Let her down nicely. Word of advice though it maybe best if u leave the other girl out.. no one wants to think they were beat out by another girl.





Me personaly i would rather think he just didnt like me thank way or didnt c it going any where. than theres another girl.
tell hur dat you see hur as just a friend