In need of some words of advice!?

ex still calling, still texting, begging me to hang out.. she broke it off with me, because she just ';wanted to have fun'; and not worry about a boyfriend.. both 22, young i guess.. i can't tell you how much i loved her.. ever since she left me i've been in a sort of depression.. life lost it's fun.. we'd hang out still and life would be great and then she'd go a couple days without calling and i would crumble all over again.. i never called her, or tired to get in touch with her, all her.. told her it hurts too much to hang out with you and etc.. she doesn't care.. called me the next day.. i still care very much about her, but i'm killing myself.. i don't know what to think at this point.. she's got 3 weeks before she moves back home, and i'll hopefully be able to get on with my own life again.. but she wants me around as usal for the next 3 weeks, what will will i seem like if i just ignore her, or at least try to.. hardest thing i've ever done.. should i care.. need some advice...In need of some words of advice!?
letting someone go that you love is the hardest thing you will ever do, i think you know yourself you are not doing yourself any favours by not taking a stance. you are hanging on for 3 weeks time when the decision is taken out of your hands, i think if you could've stopped this destructive behaviour before now, you would have. You KNOW you should ignore her and move on, but thats easier said than done, good luck to youIn need of some words of advice!?
If it really hurts you that much, then just stay away from her. You're going to make it a lot worse for yourself when she's too far away to do anything...just tell her that you can't take it anymore and that you're not going to hang out with her. Unless, you do want to hang out with her and want to put yourself through that, then it's your decision. But I don't think it's a good idea, you need to start healing as soon as possible, same thing as with an broken bone or a cut hand...you wouldn't walk around with the bone broken, or just let yourself bleed for 3 weeks would you? Heal yourself, don't keep opening it up for more pain.
well if you have to get over her to get back to the life you had then, ignore her and all of her mind games caue that's all she playing with you! aviod her and miss her from a distance cause i know how you feel...my ex bf broke up with without any king of warning. no calls, texts or nothing after that (and he'd always ignore mine) a month later he's texting, calling, and trying to get me to come back into his life. so whenever i would agree to hang with him, he would cancell or somethin would come up. he wouldn't call for a good week or two, then back at it again he would be! confusing i know but i decided to ignor his request all together! let the calls rollover- u can read the text but don't respond....day after day it will be better! trust me you'll be so over her:)
If youreally like her then of coures you will care about her, but if your mind is made up then you should try going out of town for a while. I am not going to tell you what to do but this is just my suggestion. Good luck!





Lambchop a.k.a. Blake Ashton Lamb
Your best bet is to cut all ties. As hard as it may be, she is taking advantage of your feelings, and because you appear to be of zero challenge, she may not care, if she does care, showing no challenge can be a turn off to her. So if you are unable to cut the rope, then when she calls or texts, tell her that you have other plans/date with someone else. This will change the challenge and you will not only get gratification by shocking her, but may win her back, however you must stick to being too busy for her and give her absolutely none of your time this next 3 weeks. If it is meant to be then she'll come around after 3 weeks are over, if not, you will be able to overcome your feeling towards her. Good luck, stay strong!