Anyone have some positive words of advice for someone who broke up w/ his gf?

it's been two weeks now... so i'm getting over her but every now and then when i see something that reminds me of her, or whenever i see her, i just start thinking about her again and it hurts a little...





does anyone know when this is all supposed to stop?Anyone have some positive words of advice for someone who broke up w/ his gf?
I won't lie. There's no set time that it will stop hurting. But you do have some choices. You can sit and wallow in your sorrow, or you can choose to keep on living life to the fullest.





It's hard, but time will heal your heart, so why not focus on other things? I found that I was able to spend so much more time with friends when a long relationship ended, I didn't even realize how little I had been hanging out with them. I focused on school more, worked harder, went out and did the things I wanted to do. It was refreshing to have a fresh start at everything.





You always have a choice, in this case, I hope you choose the tougher but more rewarding of the two.





Good luck!Anyone have some positive words of advice for someone who broke up w/ his gf?
Hello!





Times are different for everybody.


I could not tell you whether it's going to last 1 more month, or a year.


What I can tell you is that you two must have had your reasons to end this rlship up. So, just stay put, and respect your decision.


This is like the detox part of the rlship. When you spend a lot of time with a person it's normal that later if you break up you'll miss that person bc we're animals of habit.





So just relax, try to think in smth different. Spend your time in things that make you feel good about yourself.


If you really keep missing her after a while then it must mean smth.





Big kiss!
it will stop when you realize any one person


in any given relationship\is replaceable


it will stop when you value yourself more


and realize their are others


it will stop when you realize there are more important things in life at your young age than women


it will stop when you realize today's women are self centered so it's not much of a loss anymore


it will stop when you realize you probably settled on this girlfriend and next time you will not do as such
Was the breakup for a solid reason? Maybe the reason you still think of her and feel sad is that you should have been more devoted and given it more of a chance. Breakups do hurt. It depends on how long you were together how long it will take to start feeling better. There is a funny saying that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. That is cold hearted thinking at this juncture. Take a break and sort through your pain. Perhaps you should be talking with her now.
Just give it some time I've been through a few painful breaks and everything passes with time. Just keep yourself active and stay positive. Good luck.
Not for awhile...the best you can do it try and move on.





When you think about her, don't let yourself think about the good, only the bad. That might help.
work more and stay out of the clubs, or you'll wind up with another one
It can take a while depending upon how deep the relationship was. One way to get over is to look towards the future and not the past. You only have one life to live. You are not going to waste some of it spending time thinking about the gloomy past. Be optimistic. Look for a new relationship that will hopefully erase the former.
u need a rebound buddy
Time heals all matters of the heart. Each person gets over the loss of a relationship in their own way and time.





Staying busy helps alot. Going out, getting active, do things you enjoy, meeting new people...stay busy. It helps build confidence (we all suffer a bit after a break up, the rejection and loneliness). Do not just sit around dwelling on her.
just rub spearmint on your forehead and don't listen to guns and roses.