Follow up question to please give me a word of advice

I forgot to tell u that initially she lied to me abt her age told me she is 30 but eventually I found out that she is 38 but I guess she did it becoz she didnt want to lose me- so now what - should I be horse-whipped?





below is my first question:


last year I hooked up with a woman- to make the long story short- we dated several times n kinda got into each other- she asked to think abt marrying her- I refused coz she is 12 years older than me- despite the refusal she didnt leave n started loving me alot after a while our chemistry clicked alot N i kinda fell in love with her n started thinking abt her- now should I marry her despite her age- her look is good but her body is not so good as like her **** hv gotten older n are kinda huge-soft- not hard that I like- do u think if I marry her , her age n figure will be a problem for me?


Follow up question to please give me a word of advice
I don't think age differences are a big deal at all. I have a sister that is 8 years older than her husband, a brother that is 10 years younger than his wife, a niece that is 12 years younger than her husband, and my stepfather is 8 years older than my mother. All four couples seem to be happy. They have their fights and issues like every marriage, but age isn't the cause of those problems, and even if they were the same age they would have fights and problems because every couple does. There is a long list of items to consider when choosing someone to spend the rest of your life with. Age difference is not on the top half of that list.





Only you will know how important her figure is to you. I think once you fall in love with someone, love is worth a hundred times what a perfect figure is worth.





Good luck.