Child Support Case, advice, words of wisdom

Situation: My friend (never married) and his live-in partner separated. They have two children (girls) together. He wants the custody of the children but he believes their girls would do better with their Mom. He thinks that there are things that only Mothers can provide for their children. So she leaves him and before when she leaves he would always pick them up and live together again. Their relationship hasn't been healthy and the father of the kids has given up on trying to make it work thus the final separation. He has no problem giving as much as he can to the children but he's concerned the money will not be used wisely and for the children's well being. The ex-girlfriend has shopping addictions and habitually uses the children to get what she wants from her ex-partner.





How could you take the following requirements to court and what else one would need to know and do about it?





1. Proof of health coverage for the children and cost of the same.


- Both the children were on the natural mother's insurance since it's cheaper. She left her job and the children will have coverage until the end of this month.





2. Proof of work related child care expenses from facility or private babysitters.


- They used to take the children to a private babysitter while the natural mother works. The money comes from the fathers salary.





3. Proof of child support for other children. If either party has other children with another parent, then that parent's income is also required.


- The natural father has three other children in the Philippines. He sends money to them every month through a bank account that they can access in the Philippines. Basically he deposits the money in that account and they withdraw it from the same in the Philippines. He wants to be able to continue to do this but how do you show the court that he does send money to his other children?Child Support Case, advice, words of wisdom
The mother is not fit to have children. A judge would think that he would be better to leave the kids with. This won't cost him much. he will be able to pay for the one child support. And probably live in a nice apartment if he doesn't get the house which he should. The mother most likey will go bankrupt by the end of the month. Leave her with out money to pay for school and such. Hope I Helped!