I could really use some words of advice here if possible?

well it's like this, i really felt something for this girl, unlike anything ive felt for anything before. but now, she has a boyfriend before i could say what i wanted to say to her, we still always talk online and stuff, but i dont want to say what i feel to her because i don't want to put her in a tough situation, and she is happy right now, and that makes me happy. I decided that i would wait until she is single, but i cant get out of my head the question, 'what if?' what if she doesnt become single, i know the odds are small because she is a senior in high school and he is below her. but i dont know.. what are the odds that they dont break up? i'll take any kind of advice on anything i just said. They have been together for about 2 months now.I could really use some words of advice here if possible?
At some point, you had your chance. Now you need to be patient and wait. It would be unfair to everyone if you expressed your love now. When she becomes available again, go get her. Sometimes, if you wait, you have waited too long.I could really use some words of advice here if possible?
they have not been 2gather very long it is highly likly that they will not get married i feel that way b/c he is younger than her
You could tell her you like her alot and stuff but not what you said right now. You are in a tuff posion ,you could just flirt.Talk to her at school and stuff just hang around her , it might be hard for you when her bf is around and them kissing and stuff but do what I said tell her you have a crush on her!
Ok I understand that you don't want to complicate things, so you might want to not tell her right away. You should be a good friend and be by her side....no matter what. She may like this other guy, but high school love is usually just puppy love. But if things do become serious with them then you could casually tell her how you feel before it's too late. Best of luck.
Well, if you really love her, you wil wait for her. If you REALLY, TRULY love her, you will wait as long as it takes before she gets out of that relationship. If she is perfectly happy with him, and wants to spend the rest of her life with him, then i would go for it. You cant keep it inside of you forever.Tell her how you feel. You only have 1 life to live. Go for what you want. And then wish her the best.
THEY GANNA BREAKK UPP TRUUUUUUUSTT ME!
i think u should tell her how u feel; what if questions will just kill u inside. u need to take actions. if she says that she is not interested, then at least u know how she truly feels. tell her!
Give it time but don't pass up any opportunities waiting on her. There are so many fish in the sea. If she really liked you in that way he would be with you.
Well, My husband of 30 yrs is 2 yrs below me, so my advise is to tell her just how you feel.





I really feel you have not shared your feelings with her in fear of rejection.





You could get hurt here, but IF you clam up and say nothing, well your still getting hurt, right?





Be honest, and be sincere.





Good luck
you seem like a really sweet kid so it should be easy for you to find a NEW girlfriend. If she had feelings for you like you have for her now, she wouldnt be going out with the other guy. She would be with you. I think that the best advice any of us could give you is the advice that you dont want to hear.......try to move on.


:)


keep your head up high(:
wait til you get to college..





There'll be 100 more just like her or better.
Your a great guy, I can tell :} Let her see that. Not putting her in a tough situation is the right choice however, you are doing the right thing. But talk to her about life, and your outlook on it, talk to her about how you feel about other things rather than how much you want her. When she sees how deep you are (if you are, dont pretend to be XD) Or how good you can be, she might see the light in you. Just keep being youself, become better friends with her, in a more open way not so.. ';Bestest Guy Buddy!'; If you know what I mean, so you'll have a chance to be more. As a friend when chances come do good things for her like you know how friends get in fights and it gets bitchy? Well, decide to be the one to give her advice if ever possible and help her through things, for now, as a friend. Oh and don't worry they probably (Definatly) will break up sooner or later, you just need to hold strong or move on depending what your heart wants.


-Good luck- x333
take a chance because you never know about tomorrow ask her out but at least she will know you have feelings for her tell her how you feel about her
honestly, if its meant to be, it will happen. right now obey common morality and leave them alone. try and stay away for a while and see if your feelings subside. im sure they will. your young. you can worry about the right girls in college. Hey! you sound like an awesome guy to be writing that much about someone like that...if she cant see what a great guy you are, or hasnt seen, than its time to upgrade your taste in girls that are as dedicated as you. i was in your same situation for years...the guy never liked me...in fact he liked girls that were way oogly. and here i was trying to impress him with my modeling.
I take it your a senior yourself. You are having feeling for her and that is fine, but don't get to wrapped up in this or it will drive you crazy. YOu need to understand, she is going to have a few more boyfriends in life and you can stay a friend and may be move into one of those slots yourself someday, but for now she is with someone and you need to look at other girls for dates. Enjoy your senior year with all of your friends. have a date for the prom and keep the addresses of your friends and they phone number written down so you don't loose then over the next few years like i did.
I think you should tell her what you feel and remember age doesn't matter. All you can really do now is wait but as you wait find the girl that will love you because you didn't know maybe the one that is really meant for you is just their waiting for you to notice her! Good luck!!
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Tell her how you feel.





Think of it this way: you may be depriving her of a better relationship by not being honest.





(Not only that but you're depriving yourself)





Write her a romantic letter.
dont worry, eventually they will break up -- everyone eventually breaks up. if she's happy now, dont ask her out.. wait until she is single, cause you wouldnt want to ruin her current relationship if she is happy now.
Well this is one of those situations where you didnt put yourself out there and it might be to late. You could've had something but someone beat you to it. This is what happens when no one makes the moves. The only thing I can say is wait, but keep your options open. Maybe the right girl for you will come by and you will have the same feelings for her, even better. Good luck!
hi just tell her how u feel u never know she might feel the same about u
You won't know unless you say something. The should'a could'a would'a(s) will drive you crazy. Either tell her how you feel.... and say what you said here on Y!A or let it go. I don't recommend the the latter. TELL HER!
leave them alone and find someone else
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