Supposed to be special, blown off, left alone, and basically manipulated.... any words of advice?

I am over his place.... he had planned for us to do dinner and a movie.... well i got back from my night classes (college) and he had already made dinner for himself and i sat down ate leftovers and just did work while he went over our neighbors ( a good girl friend of mine) sat over there and watched football while him, her, and her mom ordered food ...meanwhile i sat here, doing work... alone... then





he comes back over and we talked and sat together for literally 4 minutes and his buddies randomly stopped over and he forgot to tell me they were all studying tonight.... GREAT....Supposed to be special, blown off, left alone, and basically manipulated.... any words of advice?
I think you might be being just a bit undervalued.


Go find someone else, or maybe a couple of elses. Mind you, you could forgive him, and subject yourself to that sort of treatment all the time, if you're that hang-dog submissive.


I don't recommend it, though - you are Woman, and can make your own decisions. There are better men out there, and a lot of them would be willing to give you a much better time, and at least some loyalty as well. Some would even try to get you off first a couple of times before they drop their load.


Think about it. There's a whole world out there.Supposed to be special, blown off, left alone, and basically manipulated.... any words of advice?
Ask him if he truly wants to spend time with you %26amp; why you should keep spending time with him if he doesn't.
Girl, what is up with himm??


Don't ATTACK him if you confront him, but just casually ask ';What didya do last night? I was going to ask you something, but i forgot when you came..';
Rethink the invitation. Was it a direct invitation or plan or was it a maybe we could bla bla bla sometime maybe tomorrow?


Its going to be one of three things.


He totally forgot about it


He changed his mind and forgot to tell you


He is sending you a message in a cowardly way that he is not really all that into you.





You decide which one it is.
Familiar story, wise up, if you are all he has told you to him, there is no way that he would treat you in this manner. Get your thinking cap on gal, forget the emotional pulls that you may feel, and look to the future. If you don't rate at least 80% of his non-working time now, what will you rate if you stay in this relationship fror a longer period? The odds say that your special time will decrease not increase, so is this the relationship 4 you? It's your call!!!
thats weird you should ask him wat the hell is going on maybe he forgot about your plans
Jerk!
what is he doing for you?


hes selfish you obviously want someone giving
smack him up and call him cindy...just playin....talk to him about how it upsets u! thats not right